When our loved one has dementia, you quickly learn that often what they see and hear and the experience gets processed through their brains and comes out a little different than what we see, hear, and experience. Dementia changes their brain, sometimes daily. But what they are experiencing is very real to them and a positive caregiver learns to go along with their reality and is agreeable. No need to correct and make them feel upset or anxious because what they think is real